The Sneaky Bastard
Feb. 27th, 2003 09:58 pmWell, I just looked at the comments on my LJ and had no idea his comment had been deleted - and it looks like that's because he deleted his LJ (when he posted the comment, it was as a LJ user).
It's just like him to pull this sort of stunt - he thinks if he makes it "disappear" it never happened. Boy this really backfired on him - thinking he was oh so clever and POW my BIG BALL OF ANGER!!! He also removed me from his Yahho Group. After his last freak-out (couple of days ago) he removed me and some other people (all female) because we were supposedly conspiring against him (we weren't, his mental illness was playing havoc with his paranoia that day) from his Group. The Co-mod (jimi) stepped in and got most of us back. I wasn't originally going to go back and planned to call it quits right then and there with "bi-polar guy", but it was jimi who's a very lovely fellow and I decided to rejoin. Wasn't sure if I was going to be a active member again after all that crap so was mulling it over to be silent/leave/wait-and-see - then this stupid stunt he pulled with my LJ.
Well guess what folks - I still have the comment. I can get comments sent to me thru my email so I don't have to go to my LJ to read them.
So here it is (along with my post), nothing bad about it except for the fact he did it.
mud (dumud) replied to your LiveJournal post in which you said:
> I FINALLY had a chance to go to the weekly local Goth meet-up (aka "The
> Prowl") tonight - it was so nice being able to hang-out and chat with
> people in the flesh instead of online for a change. Was good to get out
> of the house and do something even if it was just sitting, talking and
> drinking chai (milk tea) - wish I could have had gone to dinner with
> scornedembrace (a newbie like myself to "The Prowl"), Cisplatin and a
> couple of his friends, but have work in the morning so had to pass this
> time around. Maybe that was just as well because I think maybe there was
> a little bit of sparks between scorned and Cis - being able to
> concentrate on her instead of having to divide his time between her and
> I like he was at Java Jungle, maybe they'll really hit it off:) - both
> seem quite nice and could maybe make a good match for one another - time
> will tell.
> I wish I could do this sort of thing more often but work makes it
> dificult. Well, at least I can still chat with the others online:)
Their reply was:
Subject: that's incredible
"It was so nice being able to hang-out and chat with people in the flesh
instead of online for a change"
I actually left the alcove and SPOKE aloud to a stranger today.
I didn't even think about it.. right there at the library, a woman asks
me what I thought about a DVD she was holding.. I just started rambling
on about how I just watched two versions of "lathe of heaven" and hated
the new one while I totally dug the subtle mannerisms and suggestive
tone of the seventies' version so much over the
industry-friendly-trumped-up-psycho-babble-ridden advertisement that the
"new" version offered.
She stops.. looks at me and what does she tell me? I remind HER of James
Caan!
I realized of course, right there.. why I seldom leave the house. I have
only so much control over what others see when they look or listen to
whatever I offer, and it grates me.
Funny.. a library should be the place that I learn or realize such a
thing.. The building was designed to shelf books, many of which were
written lifetimes ago, written by people who have NO control over what
happens (or follows) after ANYONE who reads what they have remarked
upon.
Suddenly.. I am in good company. As the woman holding the DVD was as
much a component in this machination as I realized I have always been.
I reminded her of James Caan? Well.. there was a time when I confused
Steve Buschemi and Martin Short, so hey.. Who am I to judge?
-mud talking in libraries
It's just like him to pull this sort of stunt - he thinks if he makes it "disappear" it never happened. Boy this really backfired on him - thinking he was oh so clever and POW my BIG BALL OF ANGER!!! He also removed me from his Yahho Group. After his last freak-out (couple of days ago) he removed me and some other people (all female) because we were supposedly conspiring against him (we weren't, his mental illness was playing havoc with his paranoia that day) from his Group. The Co-mod (jimi) stepped in and got most of us back. I wasn't originally going to go back and planned to call it quits right then and there with "bi-polar guy", but it was jimi who's a very lovely fellow and I decided to rejoin. Wasn't sure if I was going to be a active member again after all that crap so was mulling it over to be silent/leave/wait-and-see - then this stupid stunt he pulled with my LJ.
Well guess what folks - I still have the comment. I can get comments sent to me thru my email so I don't have to go to my LJ to read them.
So here it is (along with my post), nothing bad about it except for the fact he did it.
mud (dumud) replied to your LiveJournal post in which you said:
> I FINALLY had a chance to go to the weekly local Goth meet-up (aka "The
> Prowl") tonight - it was so nice being able to hang-out and chat with
> people in the flesh instead of online for a change. Was good to get out
> of the house and do something even if it was just sitting, talking and
> drinking chai (milk tea) - wish I could have had gone to dinner with
> scornedembrace (a newbie like myself to "The Prowl"), Cisplatin and a
> couple of his friends, but have work in the morning so had to pass this
> time around. Maybe that was just as well because I think maybe there was
> a little bit of sparks between scorned and Cis - being able to
> concentrate on her instead of having to divide his time between her and
> I like he was at Java Jungle, maybe they'll really hit it off:) - both
> seem quite nice and could maybe make a good match for one another - time
> will tell.
> I wish I could do this sort of thing more often but work makes it
> dificult. Well, at least I can still chat with the others online:)
Their reply was:
Subject: that's incredible
"It was so nice being able to hang-out and chat with people in the flesh
instead of online for a change"
I actually left the alcove and SPOKE aloud to a stranger today.
I didn't even think about it.. right there at the library, a woman asks
me what I thought about a DVD she was holding.. I just started rambling
on about how I just watched two versions of "lathe of heaven" and hated
the new one while I totally dug the subtle mannerisms and suggestive
tone of the seventies' version so much over the
industry-friendly-trumped-up-psycho-babble-ridden advertisement that the
"new" version offered.
She stops.. looks at me and what does she tell me? I remind HER of James
Caan!
I realized of course, right there.. why I seldom leave the house. I have
only so much control over what others see when they look or listen to
whatever I offer, and it grates me.
Funny.. a library should be the place that I learn or realize such a
thing.. The building was designed to shelf books, many of which were
written lifetimes ago, written by people who have NO control over what
happens (or follows) after ANYONE who reads what they have remarked
upon.
Suddenly.. I am in good company. As the woman holding the DVD was as
much a component in this machination as I realized I have always been.
I reminded her of James Caan? Well.. there was a time when I confused
Steve Buschemi and Martin Short, so hey.. Who am I to judge?
-mud talking in libraries